Safety center
Keep the conversation thoughtful—and safe.
A good conversation can build understanding. These practical steps can help you protect your privacy, recognize pressure, and meet more safely.
Before meeting someone
- Keep your home and work address, financial details, passwords, codes, and government identifiers private.
- Meet in a populated public place. Arrange your own transportation and a way to leave.
- Tell someone you trust where you will be, who you are meeting, and when you expect to check in.
- Consider a video call and independent public-source research before meeting.
Pressure, scams, and coercion
Slow down when someone pressures you to move off-platform, share intimate material, invest, send money, pay an emergency expense, or keep the relationship secret. Never send authentication codes or grant remote access to a device. Affection does not create an obligation to provide money, sex, access, or personal information.
Keep your choices yours
Look for consistency over time, respect for boundaries, and actions that match words. You may stop a survey, decline a request, end a conversation, block, or report at any point.
Get immediate help
If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911.
For crisis support in the U.S., call or text 988. For domestic violence support, call 800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788. If it is unsafe to use this device, leave the site and use a safer device when you can.
Report a concern
Use the report control beside a survey, request, profile, or conversation, or email abuses@ourfuturefit.com. Do not include passwords, payment details, or unnecessary sensitive information.