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Clarity helps. Caution still matters.

Our Future Fit helps adults begin important conversations. It cannot prove that another person is truthful, safe, or right for you.

Not a background check. We do not conduct criminal background screenings, verify government identity, check relationship status, or validate claims made in surveys or messages. A “contact confirmed” badge means only that a person confirmed access to an email address and phone number.

Before meeting someone

  • Keep your home and work address, financial details, passwords, codes, and government identifiers private.
  • Meet in a populated public place. Arrange your own transportation and a way to leave.
  • Tell someone you trust where you will be, who you are meeting, and when you expect to check in.
  • Consider a video call and independent public-source research before meeting.

Pressure, scams, and coercion

Slow down when someone pressures you to move off-platform, share intimate material, invest, send money, pay an emergency expense, or keep the relationship secret. Never send authentication codes or grant remote access to a device. Affection does not create an obligation to provide money, sex, access, or personal information.

Use your judgment

A thoughtful answer is not proof. Look for consistency over time, respect for boundaries, and actions that match words. You may stop a survey, decline a request, end a conversation, block, or report at any point.

Get immediate help

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911.

For crisis support in the U.S., call or text 988. For domestic violence support, call 800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788. If it is unsafe to use this device, leave the site and use a safer device when you can.

Report a concern

Use the report control beside a survey, review, request, profile, or conversation, or email abuse@ourfuturefit.com. Do not include passwords, payment details, or unnecessary sensitive information.